The below is a consolidation of Tweets posted by me on June 19th, 2018.
Having been a middle-class average white boy from the suburbs, I think I get why other middle-class average white boys the suburbs end up being racists.
It’s easy to feel squeezed out by rich average white boys getting in on legacy and also passed over for not being diverse enough. Here’s the thing though, diversity has nothing to do with it. Everyone who made the cut, except for some rich white boys, are just better than you.
So you have three options –
- Admit this, be uncomfortable with not being good enough, and get better.
- Admit this and get comfortable with not being good enough.
- Admit nothing, act like you belong, and become bitter.
If you are not tough enough for 1 or 2, racists and other bigots will happily sell you the snake oil that is option 3. They will eagerly explain how great you are and how diversity is the reason you didn’t make the cut. In turn, you’ll make them feel better simply by joining.
You’ll also notice how they will never blame the legacy rich white boys either, because ultimately that’s who they want to be. They don’t want to be better. They don’t want to compete. They want maximum privilege to succeed despite their own mediocrity.
Don’t be a racist.